You need to move closer to your husband if you think 11 hours of driving is such a hardship. As far as privacy, if your husband was not the robber baron criminal that he is you would have all the privacy that you deserve. But I don't judge you nor your husband, that is God's job, and you can be sure that, regardless of what you believe, His justice will be served. Bernie may be forgiven but he will have to pay his debts.